Comments on: I used to be against pacifiers https://www.glowwordbooks.com/blog/2012/11/27/using-pacifier-with-our-baby-breastfeeding/ Tue, 15 Jan 2013 00:18:31 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 By: Simon https://www.glowwordbooks.com/blog/2012/11/27/using-pacifier-with-our-baby-breastfeeding/comment-page-1/#comment-65 Tue, 11 Dec 2012 21:50:00 +0000 http://www.glowwordbooks.com/blog/?p=598#comment-65 This is so crucial, Natasha, and I’m glad you wrote it. Before we had a kid I was (secretly) judgemental of so many parents. Why can’t you control your kid? Why are you feeding him that crap? Why aren’t you disciplining her? Clearly you should be doing X, Y, or Z and I know because…I’m not a parent! But now that we have a son I have tried really hard to eliminate those judgements even though they creep in from time to time anyway (boo!). I rarely see the complete picture of another family’s life, only snippets from the store or a parking lot. Who am I to judge? They could be dealing with so many things I don’t understand, and I need to just let them be and keep my unhelpful thoughts to myself.

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